Posted by Anonymous on 2015/01/27 under Uncategorized My whole life my mother has always been emotionally abusive to me. Would build me up and quickly break me down. She is only happy when bad things happen to me then she looks better then me and has to give me help .. She constantly borrows money from me and uses me and even steals my ss number . But I love her and miss her I have not let her back in my life in a year and I think about her a lot I dont really have any other family they are all alcoholics or hooked on drugs or mentally ill. My therapist says my mother suffers from multiple personality disorder . I’m the oldest of 6 and the first in many generations to move far away from home start my own family and graduate college. They all talk bad about me and hate me. I don’t know why I care so much and still send gifts and I know that’s all they want from me is money and gifts it’s the only time any of my siblings call me or text me around holidays to make sure I send them something . Why can’t I just turn my back on all of them and be free I feel my emotions are all over the place I want to hate them but I cant. I also can’t comtinue to let them in . What do I do?
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Dear Successful,
= ) congratulations on being the successful survivor. Just continue as you are now. You can shower gifts on them, because you can.
Like a winner who won a football size chocolate cake, you can definitely spare a few crumbs, if only to show you can.
And anyway, keeping in contact, if only through gifts, reminds you that, although its made of many weird ass and uninteresting pieces, it is still Your Family. And families stick together. You can’t choose who to be born from. Too bad.
About your mum, just pop by and drop a gift. You don’t have to talk to her. Just show her you miss her and scram before she bites you.This way she knows you still love her, just cant stand her. Some people get progressively aggressive as they age, and sometimes they just cant stop. Its not that they dont want to, but its become a habit. So what the Hat is trying to tell you is: she loves you, shes just showing it in all the wrong and childishly spoilt ways.
Regards,
TopHat